Isso é discutido por Remus e Sirius quando Peter implorou que eles não o matassem na Casa dos Gritos no final do Prisioneiro de Azkaban . A razão era que eles não sabiam quem era o espião e Remus era um suspeito.
“Remus!” Pettigrew squeaked, turning to Lupin instead, writhing imploringly in front of him. “You don’t believe this ... wouldn’t Sirius have told you they’d changed the plan?”
“Not if he thought I was the spy, Peter,” said Lupin. “I assume that’s why you didn’t tell me, Sirius?” he said casually over Pettigrew’s head.
“Forgive me, Remus,” said Black.
“Not at all, Padfoot, old friend,” said Lupin, who was now rolling up his sleeves. “And will you, in turn, forgive me for believing you were the spy?”
“Of course,” said Black, and the ghost of a grin flitted across his gaunt face. He, too, began rolling up his sleeves. “Shall we kill him together?”
Assim, a razão para não dizer a Remus era deliberada (eles não confiavam nele) e não que eles simplesmente não tivessem tempo para contar a ele (como outra resposta sugere). De fato, sabemos de Prisioneiro de Azkaban Capítulo 10 que havia pelo menos uma semana inteira entre o desempenho do Feitiço de Fidelius e as mortes dos Potter:
“But James Potter insisted on using Black?”
“He did,” said Fudge heavily. “And then, barely a week after the Fidelius Charm had been performed — ”
“Black betrayed them?” breathed Madam Rosmerta.
“He did indeed.