O seguinte vem de " Artigo do Tolkien Oficialmente Dito Sobre o Sexo Élfico ", que por sua vez é muito citado por " Leis e Costumes dos Eldar, "publicado no livro Anel de Morgoth, História da Terra-Média. ( LACE )
"Marriage is chiefly of the body, for it is achieved by bodily union, and its first operation is the begetting of the bodies of children, even though it endures beyond this and has other operations. And the union of bodies in marriage is unique, and no other union resembles it."
Então, sim, os elfos se reproduzem como os homens (também, Aragorn teve um filho com Arwen, então a reprodução é biologicamente compatível)
Além disso, no que se refere ao envelhecimento / infância (novamente proveniente do mesmo)
The Facts of Elf Life
...Some more elvish facts of life, all sourced from LACE. Regarding elvish pregnancy, "A year passed between the begetting and the birth of an elf-child, so that the days of both are the same, or nearly so."
Elvish childhood and adolescence lasted until the age of approximately 50 years. Elves tended to marry soon after coming of age, with a one-year engagement being standard. Elves did not say they "had a baby," they said "a baby is given to us." The most kids an elf couple ever had were seven, the sons of Fëanor and Nerdanel. Tolkien said absolutely nothing about elf puberty.
No que se refere ao envelhecimento físico, Ciclo de vida élfico - Tolkien Gateway - Vida posterior tem isso (não tenho certeza do original fontes para essas declarações, mas o artigo como um todo faz referência " Do Shibboleth de Fëanor " abd " Contos Inacabados," A História de Galadriel e Celeborn "," Amroth e Nimrodel ", p 320 ")
Apparently, beards were the only sign of further natural physical aging beyond maturity.
Elves did not age over their 100th year but they aged in a different sense than Men: they became ever more weary of the world and burdened by its sorrows, sometimes appeared to age under great stress.
Círdan seemed to be aged himself, since he is described as looking old, save for the stars in his eyes; this may be due to all the sorrows he had seen and lived through since the First Age. Also, the people of Nargothrond had trouble recognizing Gwindor after his time as a prisoner of Morgoth.
E, para uma fonte menos canônica: